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Saturday, 22 September 2012

AmitSingh_BLP025_Happiness


Happiness is a concept that has inspired generations to seek the meaning of it. The quest for it has led psychologists, scientists and philosophers to come up with many theories. All the religion has happiness as the core theme in it around which all its philosophy revolves. Wikipedia defines happiness as “mental or emotional state of well being characterized by positive or pleasant emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy”. It has got different meaning for different individuals. Some looks for uniqueness of state of happiness in a subjective manner while other looks for uniformity of principles that brings happiness to all individuals.

For me happiness is a mental state when I am totally engrossed in the present without any consideration for past or future. For me it is a state of mental peace where the chattering in the mind stops and one sense a great sense of ease with oneself. All individuals has experienced these moments of timelessness in one’s life. And these experiences have been the motivating factor for individuals to undertake this quest for happiness and to search for constant state of being in it which is also termed as enlightenment.

Most of the time individuals complain about past or dream about future but never live in the present. Even during sleep very few enlightened being gets sound sleep where mind simply stops chattering. We believe that it is a state of being which is gifted to certain individuals whom we called as someone who has attained enlightenment and consciously ignore the potential that is within us to reach to that stage. When someone asked Osho that can human being collectively attain the stage of enlightenment, he answered in a very poetic fashion that man has reached the highest stage of evolution which has imparted individuality to every human being. This stage has given him/her the choice to make decision and it is up to individual to make a choice whether to attain it or not. He called this process human revolution and not evolution as it is a natural process while revolution is a result of conscious effort.

To live in the present one has to completely align the as taught by Anil Sir the different layers within the human being with mindfulness at its core. As one becomes more conscious of one’s thought, then and only then the realisation to attain happiness by being in present come into picture. The technique for meditation as preached by Osho is to just watch your thought without reacting to it (which acts as fuel for fire for the mind to harp back on past or future) and slowly and steadily the mind will stop going astray and come to the present.

In the Maslov theory of need explained by Mahesh Sir in the class, one can also find the occurrence of “Aha” moment in one’s life at the juncture when there is sublimation of energy in vertical direction which finally takes us to the stage of self actualisation. It is the stage when time, space and being mingle into one to create perfect synergy.

One can’t expect to reach to that stage in an instant. We hear so many stories as to how Buddha attained enlightenment in a fraction of second while sitting under the Bodhi tree and we all expect that moment for us to come. But we forget the effort put behind in terms of developing the sense of awareness so that it become natural in the end and in my opinion that natural stage is called enlightenment- the only source of happiness. Even while talking to Dr. Milton Bennet about his experience of volunteering and how it changed his life, he said that before going for volunteering he has this desire to develop consciousness within him and through that experience attain happiness by delving deep into the field of his interest.

I think that is the greatest learning for me to get to that stage where whatever I do I give my 100% from heart and mind and hopefully someday attain the state of Nirvana.          

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

   

: Amit Singh_BLP025_Self Leadership_September 2012


It was a great learning experience after attending the self leadership session of Anil Sir. In the last class held at the start of first trimester, we had the great privilege to understand self through the concentric model of 5 qualities on which the institute itself is based upon. In continuance, in this class we were enlightened upon the aspects of inter personal relationship and route to happiness. This session was a great cathartic moment for all of us as it provided us the opportunity to let out our emotions and gave us the strength to cope with the loss of 2 of our beloved friends.    

The session started with a video on “things to do before I die” which for me was a great source of inspiration as it provided the insight to have aspiration and dream even while facing the ultimate truth of life which is “Death”. This video for me was a way to rejoice life and accept death.

Then we learned the nuances of appreciative inquiry and the qualities needed for it, one of which is deep listening as if one’s life depends on it and to paraphrase what s/he has said. Deep listening only comes when the listener is fully present and is able to empathise i.e. put oneself in other’s perspective not position. Also the other qualities needed for undertaking AI is to develop trust which can only come into being when the EQ level of listener is high. Finally for an AI to be successful one should be respectful of other’s uniqueness and also aspect of genuineness and warmth should be reflected through words and body language. I had this great experience of undergoing the process of AI with Sandeep Balaji (exercise was conducted for whole class in group of 2) and it was a great experience for me to know him better to share my thoughts. As a class we got to know each other much better in terms of his/her strengths and qualities which generally we ignore. This exercise created a sense of belonging among each and everyone developed collective aspiration to make the institute and our self better than before.

In afternoon session we watched the video of a monk who is termed the happiest person in the world in which he shared secret behind happy life. Then we individually introspected upon the causes of unhappiness in our life by concentration upon following aspects

1.       Unstated emotional expectation of near and dear ones which I have failed to meet

2.       Regrets about the past

3.       Guilt which I carry with me all the time

This exercise brought to the surface those incidents which always remain in our mind but we try our best to ignore it. It was a way to become more conscious of our own self and take corrective action to take out those emotions that always disturbs us because until and unless one doesn’t know what the problem, one can’t find real solution.  

And then we collectively shed all our burdens that we carry from the past which always pulls us back in a very figurative way as if we are climbing the mountain of happiness and shedding all our bag and baggage of past to reach to the top and attain happiness.      

The takeaway from this session was to build an aura of positivity within and around you to create unity in diversity.