Indeever Arora_MLP006_Self Leadership_May2013

"The wind may blow from any direction, but the direction in which you go depends on how you set the sails." 

This is what self leadership is all about. Today's session is all about the power inside you and the effect of it on others. In this we have learned the the fastest travelling thing in the world is thought. It travel 100 times faster than any other source like sound, light and its the biggest energy. In this thought process there is spiritual mind also connects with the soul and make any impossible thing possible.people who have control on their consciousness they also have control on their time and space.

Then there is a understanding of the giver and taker relationship. In this the giver get more benefit than the taker.There is the power of unconditional love which is biggest in the world. unconditional love means giving others without expecting anything in return as such. then we have realize that there is a difference between the i and , I is the learner and i tells you that i an distinctive than you.And one true thing about us is that we all want to be the center of universe, and nobody wants to be the part of this universe. 

After that we have tried to realize the power by three simple exercises:-

1. Power of observation:- We normally don't believe that just by looking at your eyes and by your gestures somebody can read you or understand you fully but after this exercise we actually realize that body language is more important than the spoken words. Except that it create the bonding between the two person when they look into each others eyes. 

  

2. Power of listening:- As talking is important in the same way listening to somebody attentively is also very important. Because if the listeners are not attentive speaker also looses his/her interest after a period of time and he feel neglected. Because here all the power is with listener not with the speaker.As a listener is following you that's only the reason you are a leader.Some of the best leaders in the world are the the finest leaders. 

3. Power of touching:- The touching also transfers a lot of power to others and can cure or work as a medicine to a lot of diseases. It is not about touching somebody physically, you can also transfer your energy to him by lot of other ways and one of them is meditation. power of touch connects one soul to the another which creates lifetime bonding.  

So this session made us more aware about the hidden powers which are there in our body and how can we use them to overcome our problems and the problem of others. By practicing it regularly we can realize our full potential. 

Indeever Arora_MLP006_Self Leadership_May2013

Self Leadership is the art of knowing yourself better.By practicing self leadership one person can easily answer this question "Who M I "? It is all about knowing your values strengths, how do you work, which environment you want to work in, and with the relation of all these what can you contribute. In self leadership first you discover yourself and that we can do by appreciative inquiry and mind mapping. After that we dream,design and deliver at the end. By practicing all that you come to know about your character and the contribution you want to make. In self leadership we mainly follow three processes and these are:- 

1. Process of observing 

2. Process of listening

3. Process of touching

 

If we try to find out the answer to the question  who m i ? then we follow the 6 layer model for this. in this we divide a person into 6 layers like:-

1. Physical layer- This layer made of your 5 senses which connects you from outside world. 

2. Instinct layer- This is all about the first reaction from the data that we get. 

3. Emotional layer- This layer deals with our heart/mind. It actually derives relationships. 

4. instinctual brain layer-This layer helps you to think and make choices.

5. Ego layer- This layer limits you to get your true potential. 

6. I layer- This layer tells you that you have unlimited potential. 

Facts Derived From Analysis:- 

• For knowing our self we do meditation, in this we look at our thought process peacefully.
• Here intuition is the direct living force that guide you or the inner voice that tells you what is right and what is wrong. 
• As mind changes everyday same like that ego also changes as per the time and the new person you met. but you should have command on both your inner world as well as the outer world. 
• The more you go out of the circle the amount of happiness that you will get is the least. 
• instinctual layer deals with the ethics and it tells you where you want to go between the given 2 choices. 
• Here mindfulness is the thing which helps you to take the actual decisions. 
• your traits actually puts value on the effects.   

 In addition to this self- leadership is all about relating your resources with the environment you are working in, perform and if there are any gaps comes out in your performance than take it as a learning by making learning goals based on that and that derives you to the growth. 

In conclusion we can say that self leadership plays a very important role in our success as till that time we are not aware about us, we can't manage our self and if we can't manage our self we can't manage anybody else. So for  being a leader self awareness is must.