Saturday 6 October 2012

Emotional Intelligence_October6

                                    The Inner Realm to Control!!!
 
 
The fourth realm of the human is the emotional intelligence. The sustenance of this layer is the thought and the feelings that change the universe or just instigate the process.  The facilitator of this journey towards meeting yourslef has a major role to play in this whole aspect. Knowing and trusting is the big issue for all. The people who has inspired us the most have done that because of the emotional quotient. We remember the people by the way they have affected us emotionally. The small things which they have done so that the other people are not behind the walls of inhibition. Any great leader or an inspired leader has helped the people become aware of there strength and acknowledge it forever and value it forever. To be one with the thought and not with the words is what makes you a leader. To understand it all one has to know and appreciate the emotional self. However this same layer is the one which causes the notion in the person of being a VICTIM. And this being a victim has its causes coming from the three emotions:
  • Regret
  • Guilt
  • Disappointment
With these feelings there emerges a slef doubt which causes all the problems in the life of the individual. So what is the way to control these feelings. One of the most efficient way is freinds. You share these incidents with freinds or someone who is not judging you. That helps you to identify the causality and hence to remove the sense of being a victim. Be engrossed in that particular moment and be nowhere else. Be one with what you do and what you do will be you.

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