From centuries we think that it’s an individual’s
Intellect that decides success and failure in his life but with today’s class
this myth came to an end. With self leadership part2 I get revealed to the power
of emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence is that behavior of ours
which we acquired from the experiences that we had with time. In fact it is one
of the crucial aspect in deciding the success graph in our lives.
In today’s class of Anil Sir we uncovered the secret of
emotional intelligence layer by layer. Deep
listening is one of the most important part in increasing your emotional intelligence.
With deep listening one can actually understand a lot many things that cannot
be solved with intellectual ability. The way we listen to others decides our
level of connect with them. To understand this concept we played a small game
called ego and alter-ego. The game explains that to be a good listener its very
import to shut the voice inside because it is the major cause of our
distraction. Secondly we should not try to judge the thoughts and views of the
other person, it’s better to be a patient and a selfless listener.
The Second most important thing that we learn in today’s
class was what true happiness means. Happiness is the joy that give us
stillness whereas the pleasure that gives excitement is nothing but poor
addiction. HAPPINESS IS MY BIRTH RIGHT and to achieve it, today’s lecture gave
me a small trick. The trick says that to be happy one should do the practice of
giving joy. The simple steps are
1.
Honor your uniqueness and understand your gifts
2.
Find cause that give you joy
3.
Leverage your uniqueness and gifts to work on
that cause
4.
Share the joy with others
5.
Enable others to the 4 above
Life is a journey and every experience adds more beauty to
it. It’s up to how we want to embrace it. Spreading happiness is the best way
to achieve happiness.
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