Wednesday, 24 October 2012

Debanjan_063_Self leadership_October 2012


Today’s class with Anil Sir started with the definition of courage and he told each table to discuss within ourselves and try to find out the answer to the question as to where does courage comes from? Each of the teams discussed and the essence of what we got was:

Courage comes from the following factors:

è Realization that we are a part of a larger community and identifying that we are there for a greater cause.

è Comes from inside, the cause for which you are fighting also gives you courage.

è It comes when you are passionate about something

è From being selfless.

è In case of extraordinary challenge, it helps us overcome our limitations.

è When there is a spark inside you.

è Service strengthens courage.

è Ethics leads to courage.

è Opportunity to take on big responsibility.

è Courage is not the absence of fear but the realization that there is something more important than fear.

è Also courage comes from deep love.

After this Anil sir told us to do an exercise in pairs. He told us to write down our vision. He told that if the vision is embarrassing or it sound like ‘humblepie & motherhood’ then that is a great vision.

My vision was: Improve lives of people in the eastern part of India.

Then Anil Sir showed us a video on happiness and told us to reflect upon that video and discuss in groups and write down what we meant by happiness.

We discussed in the class and among ourselves and came up with the below points which we felt could bring in happiness. Those points are:

è  Living in the present moment

è By meditation

è Compassion is a big factor for happiness, it impacts brain waves

è Materialistic aspect of life don’t bring permanent happiness

è Honoring life and going for inner-fulfillment

è We can choose to be happy, from hate to love is a fantastic journey.

è Joy and happiness are not pleasure

è Passion, love for a cause leads to courage and courage leads to happiness.

Again Anil Sir told us to perform another exercise where he told to rate ourselves on a scale of 1-7 the below questions

1)      Do I consider myself happy?

2)      Compare to most of my friends do I consider myself happy?

3)      Some people are always happy no matter what, do I agree to this?

4)      Some people are always un-happy no matter what, do I agree to this?

Our team scored 5.67, 6, 5.6 and 2.1 for the above questions.

Then we had a discussion regarding ‘whether money makes a person happy or not’? We discussed that money can only bring short term happiness to you but to get long term happiness we must practice the following factor:

è Religion

è Thinking style

è Good relation

è Exercise

We also discussed some economic factors that determine happiness. We also discussed that happiness is something that cannot be measured and compared. Also people know what makes them happy.

After this we had a session on Meditation. Anil sir also taught us how to practice meditation. Then we discussed about the one thing that I thought if changed can bring the best out of me. That thing has to be worked upon action, in thinking process and also via relationship.

In the end session Anil sir introduced us to the Immunity X-Ray.

He told us to choose a habit that was very difficult for us to eliminate. Then I was to write down what I did instead. Then I need to note down the hidden or competing commitment and the assumptions based on those commitments.

This session on leadership series was very insightful as it went out to the dark corners our minds and helped to reflect ourselves.

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