Monday, 21 May 2012

Vipul Gupta_BLP011_Self Leadership_May 2012


As I write this, the clock reads 3:32 AM and as I battle with sleep I remind myself that It's the body that needs the sleep and the choice that I make of either writing this from a task(read homework to be finished) perspective or after having fully introspected should be in sync with the higher purpose. So I decide to give the 6th Layer of self some stimulus so that it doesn’t tell the 3rd layer to shut up.

It has been a day full of learnings at SOIL.

The learning about the 6 layers of self  has given me a practical tool to leverage the concept of the body and soul to do something more meaningful with it.

Another powerful learning that I had is of how to be a good listener, importance of something that I have probably heard for a gazillion times but what the biggest learning was that how to listen to the implied meaning and by the power of listening how to make someone else more enthusiastic about what s/he is trying to share. 

Other than speaking and listening, gestures eye movements and touch as medium to communicate were fascinating to understand. While in workshops with Madhu last week I could observe how beautifully she uses the eye moments and gestures to express herself so much better and create an engaging experience, the session crystallized it for me.

With all the pedophilic crimes and many communities talking about making their children aware of difference between a good touch and a bad touch the importance of touch as a medium of communication is evident and  it was quite an experience to learn about the power of touch and its impact. It could be used to express yourself without saying a word or when you are in a situation when the other person is not receptive to speech. It could be used between people who do not share a language in common or maybe just to enhance the overall impact even while you talk.

It was overall an amazing experience to learn about the basic things we do every day and how those can be improved upon to be a better communicator and a better leader, a leader irrespective of the title or role as displayed by Balwant Singh Ji.   

A great day at SOIL and looking forward to Neetika Ma’am first class tomorrow :)

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